talking with some mothers, I realized that many of them are following the children with their homework so much this: children sitting next to them step by step help themselves by bridging the gaps of understanding or desire to do. For example, for some, I hear, practice is to help those cards or even suggest the "little thought" to be dialed when the child is tired.
In this sense they were (and are) a mother absolutely absent.
's always been understood that the tasks were a commitment and who should manage for themselves: I never set the time and I never obsessed if sometimes not seen particularly eager to get on the books. If the tasks were not being done the itch was to them, if only had to hurry up with the teacher.
I always supervised, of course, but from afar.
When I expose my "technique" these moms look at me as you look at a degenerate.
However, I do not know if it was luck or what but my methods have given (to date) their own fruit.
All this introduction to tell the other morning.
The small, while making breakfast, and jumped on the chair suddenly remembering a task unfinished.
So: look languid from which is about to get a (not so furtive) tear ... "Oh Mom! I know that yesterday I forgot to copy the sentence of the book in his notebook."
I , very severe, "Well, now I remember! Brava! .... And off with a series of accusations ended with" you must tell the teacher! "
you, my reaction to the sustained me throughout piccata "Mom, I do not talk like that ... but you know that I might cause a trauma? "
I wonder if I should caution could lead to short a claim for damages of life. Small viper.
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